I truly believe all things, good and bad, happen for some strange reason.. Every thing has a purpose, and its nice to believe that the ultimate purpose is good.. I think people come into our lives at specific times, and leave at certain times also.. The main question is, how do we really know when to let go? How do we know that that specific relationship has served its purpose, and its time to move on? I know from experience that it’s not good to hold onto an unhealthy relationship, living in the memories of the past and creating an unpleasant present..
But what if someone is in your life and you never want to let them go.. You want them in your life forever? They compliment you so well and your life feels so much more complete with them in it.. You just never want to let them go, even if it is time to.. Is it wrong to hang on to something because you are afraid of what will happen when you let it go? I am..
I feel like I am holding so tight onto something so great in my life because I am scared of who I will be without it.. I am afraid of change and learning to live under new circumstances.. If things are good, I want them to stay that way forever.. I know this is fantasy at its best, but I don’t see why things have to change, why people go away, and why relationships become different..
But I guess if I never left for college, faced new challenges, and met new people, then I wouldn’t have all the wonderful people in my life right now and I would not have had the most incredible experience.. I am forgetting that good, even great things, can come from change.. I guess its all about your attitude towards it and what you make of the new situation.. Still, change is very difficult.. Its hard to adjust to a new situation, especially when you are longing for the familiar and comfortable..
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